Knowing Your Dreams

Fruits Falling Before Their Time

2009-04-27T02:16:00.000-07:00

Time really fly don’t you agree?

Without me noticing, it had been twelve years since I got married and ten years since me, my wife and my first child had moved to this apartment. It’s a good thing too, that we were to move out from the rented house and was able to buy a house of our own. Although the rented house was much spacious and ours is a little bit smaller but we can say that this is ours.

I can also say that we bought the house at the right time, as the price of houses went boom after that. It all happened ten years ago, back in the year 1997 when the economy crisis hit Asia. Many major companies have difficulty paying their dues loans, as the loan was in US dollar. Major factory have cut down production because the raw material was all imported and paid in US dollar. The company I worked was in import and export services. You can say our type of service was the most hit by the economy crisis. As a result, many lost their job and I was one of them.

I was quite lucky, as my wife is a government employee. It had no impact on her job and is still able to bring in some money. Now that I’m not working, we don’t have the money to pay the maid that take care of the baby and cleans the house. Reluctantly we had to let her go and I was glad that she understood the situation.

Well it’s now just the baby and me. Actually, I’m not the only in my family that had lost his job. My brother in-law also lost his job. In his case, it’s actually worse as my sister had quit her job to take care of their three children.

My mum who is living out of pension lives alone in a big house. The house itself was inherited by my late father. My sister and I had always asked her to live with one of us but she always decided otherwise. She always says that she will live with one of her children when the day comes. Well that day did come; mum had decided to live with my sister. As you know my previous house was quite spacious so I asked her to stay with me instead but she declined. I had to tell the truth that I was actually worried for her as my sister lived in a two room apartment. One room was occupied by my sister and her husband and the other room was occupied by the three children. Where will she sleep?

She told me not to worry as she had already thought of it. Mum had decided to sell the house and split the money between my sister and me. Mum apparently had talked it over with my sister. They had decided that my sister were to sell her house and with the money receive from selling mum’s house they would buy a bigger house. Days passed and mum’s house was sold. My sister, her husband and mum found their ideal house, bought it and are still living in it now. As for me, with the money mum gave me, added some saving, I move out of the rented house and bought the apartment, which I’m still living in.

A couple of months later I found a job in an insurance company. To show gratitude for the new job and for the house, I held a dinner party just for the family and close relatives. My mum, my sister's family and some close relatives came. We had fun a time that night, eating, laughing, and telling old story. However, there was one of mum’s stories that caught my attention.

Mum said that before my brother in-law and I lost our job she had a dream. In that dream, she was in her backyard garden (previous house) there she saw two fallen fruits of different kind. A mango and a guava. She asks herself why the fruits have fallen as they were not ripe. As she looked up, she discovered that the reason the fruit fall is that the trees were dying.

At that time, I just smiled and laughed likes the rest of my family. It was about 12:30am that everyone decided to leave. Even my mum decided to leave as one of her sister decided to spend the night at her new home. However, before leaving some of my nephew helped in cleaning the place. It was a relief too as both my wife and me were dead tired.

When everything was done, I thanked all of my family and relatives for coming to my little dinner party. In the morning I started to think about the dream that my mum had. The dream was actually about my brother in-law and me. In the dream world, trees are interpreted as homes, jobs, things, or place you really rely on. In our case, they were both. Fruits are considered your children or people that depend on you. I smile as I intrepreted mum's dream to myself. I think mum knew better.

What It Means When You Dream of Having Intercourse With A Family Member

2009-04-25T02:01:00.000-07:00

A few month back an ex-neighbor of my sent me an email. His name is Sam, he got this pretty, and friendly wife (Susan) which always cannot stop smiling. Now they have move out to a bigger and more luxurious apartment. Sam has always been my idol because he seems to have everything in life. He got his wife Susan, two bright children, a girl and a boy, a good job with a big income and a good career too. Sam and I have been keeping in touch since a couple month back when Sam got this big promotion and he is always going abroad. Because of that, we rarely met but we still emailed each other.

When I open the email today, Sam wrote me many things about how busy he was lately as the company is going through big merger and all the staff is working extra hard. He apologizes for not being in touch. In the email, Sam actually needs a favor from me. He told me about one of his colleague named Ana.

Ana is one of the top executive CEO at the office and is a very looked up person in the company. However, lately Ana have been acting strange, she keeps to herself, seldom talk and she always look tired. People around her say that Ana is like a different person and they are worried about her performance as she is one of the most reliable person in the big merger.

Anyway, one day Sam asked Rose, one of the staff at the office, to talk to Ana and luckily, she was able to have a sincere talk with Ana. She found out that Ana was not sick. Ana was just not having enough sleep. In addition, the reason that she was not getting enough sleep was that she herself was not allowing it. Ana was afraid to fall asleep because she did not want to have the same nightmare she had a few nights before.

At first, she was reluctant to talk about her dream, but after lots of persuasion, at last she agreed to talk about her dream. Ana said that in her nightmare she was having sexual relations with her own father. She felt so disgusted and humiliated because of the nightmare that she decided not to sleep because this is the second time she had this nightmare.

Ana told Rose the first time she had the nightmare was long ago when she was still single and was living in London while taking her masters degree. It is a good thing too that she had it after she had graduated because she was stressed out that time. It took her about three months to recover from the shock. Ana told Rose that she might have been able to forget it because she was still young and thought nothing of it and that she had a boyfriend to cheer her up. Now though, she has a husband and children of her own, until she really cannot stop thinking about it and that the nightmare really disgusted her. Rose really do not want to tell Sam of what she know but as Sam was sincere enough in helping Ana she decided to tell it to Sam with good intention.

So I decided to help interpret Ana’s dream, I explained to Sam although it seems disgusting and the humiliation to the daughter, it is perfectly natural to feel that way, after all that is her father. I know of one case when the daughter ran away from home, hated the father and try to commit suicide. It is actually not fair for the father, as he had done nothing to deserve it.

Actually, in the dream world when a daughter has sex with her father it is actually a good sign. Just tell Ana that it is normal how she reacted to the dream, but the dream is telling her that she will be highly regarded by the senior generation. In her case, maybe the merger and all the related stuff will have to do with the dream. She will have the support of many senior staff especially by the men. It also means that her she will be very successful and will have a bright career. She shouldn't be ashamed of herself. She should call or visit her father and tell him how much she adores him. Her dream is telling her how much he cares and that he will always be there to support her.

I do hope Ana feels much better and I do hope she can get through this.

The Secret Behind the Tooth Dream

2009-04-23T08:25:00.000-07:00

I was sitting alone while having a cup of tea in a corner of a canteen during my office break when suddenly a friend say hello. Well..not really a friend, as I barely knew him. I only knew him because we work in the same building and we said hi to each other a couple of times.

To be courteous I offered him the empty seat front of me. He thanked me and he sat down. We never had the chance to introduce ourselves to each other before and smiling he introduced himself to me as Jhon.

Conversation took off lightly until too my surprise he suddenly apologized to me saying that this was not just an ordinary meeting as he had been looking for me in my office previously.

I ask him if there was anything I can do for him and if he has anything to ask me. He told me he heard from a friend that I could help translate dream.

I told him I only translate dream as a hobby and I am not good at it. He told me not to be too humble as he had heard differently and he really needs my help as he has been having the same dream for three nights in a row. As I heard him said that I said to myself that this kind of thing seldom happen and if this really happen this will be a new experience for me too.

Trying to not be too obvious I agreed to it but I told him that I also need time to analyse the meaning of the dream. He thanked and he told me of what he dreamed of. What I heard really shocked me but I just kept quiet and pretended that I have heard this before and that everything is cool.

After he had finished telling me about his dream, he asked me if I can translate his dream right away. Well I told him I really need time to find the precise meaning and to be sure. Just as I was saying that, four guys came up to our table and asked if Jhon have finished talking to me as break time was over and would like to get back to the office together. Jhon apologized to me and he told me that he would call me later. I told him that it was fine and we will talk again later.

As they were walking I accidently heard one of the guys ask Jhon about his wife and how her brain tumor was. In addition, from a distance I can swear I saw Jhon shaking his head and one of the guys putting his hand around Jhon.

Forgetting what I heard and seen, all I could think of was what Jhon said to me about his dream. In his dream, Jhon was looking in a mirror and he could see his own face and as he open his mouth he discovered that his front upper teeth was missing. The dream itself is not a good sign and the fact that he have been having the same dream three times in a week is worst. In the dream world, teeth are related to life. Not ours but the life of the one we care for, the upper teeth are family members and relative and the lower teeth are for close friends. It is also the number of time one had the dream. Once it could be sickness, twice it could be death, three times I never heard of (I don’t know).

I wonder what and how to tell Jhon. Do I tell him the truth or tell him otherwise? I waited for his call until the end of office hour but he still did not call. Well I think I would catch up with him tomorrow. It was really a relief actually because I will have some time to think it over.

That night I can't sleep. I keep wondering what to say to Jhoh cause I only know half the meaning of the dream and not the whole of it.

When I reached the office building, in the morning, I looked around for Jhon but he was not anywhere to be seen, so I decided to talk to him at lunchtime. Lunch time came , I took my lunch at the usual canteen hoping for Jhon to come by, but he did not came. I told myself why should I be looking for him, it should be him looking for me.

Therefore, I got back to the office and have my usual day. You know that was the last time I ever saw or talk to Jhon. He never again showed up at work or called. I never really did know what happen and I guess I do not want to know because some things are better left untranslated.

Nightmare (dreams)

2009-04-22T07:38:00.000-07:00

The wonderful thing about dreams is that anyone must have had an experience with it. Not just adult have it, even children and maybe even our pets.

I for sure have at least one or two dreams a week. Some people say dreams are just a "sleep flower" but if it is just a "sleep flower", why are there nightmares?

People always hope for a good dream but most often we have nightmare instead. Why do we sometimes have good dreams and in the day sometimes nightmare? I have often wonder why. Is there any coincidence about what we do in the day or what we thought off before we sleep that trigger a dream or a nightmare? Or are dream able to predict of what is too come in the near future?

I’m living in the eastern part of the world. Here dreams are consider a part of the future. Each dream has a meaning and it helps if one is able to translate its meaning. Some dream have the exact meaning but most doesn’t. Some are easy too translate and some are the opposite of it.

Let me tell you about a dream I had a few years back. In my dream I was in a cave and in the cave there was dozens of snakes. One of the snake bit my leg till I bled, causing me to wake up. The next day I told my dream to an old man, that is consider an elderly and is most respected in my neighbourhood, about my dream. You know what he said about my dream? He told me that I’ll be getting married. I can't believe it because at that time my girlfriend was still in college.

To cut a long story short, what he told me really happened. My girlfriend parents are to be working abroad and she will have no one to take care of her. And they ask me if I was serious enough to take their daughter as my wife. Of cause I accept it; she was the love of my life. And so I got married and am still greatly in love. Now I m hopping for the best in my married and that is why I have decided too learn more about dream.

In this few years I’ve gathered much information about dreams and its meaning. I also have learn about how one's name and date of birth can affect one behavior, fortune and future, and so I decided to share about it in this blog.

Let me know about your dreams. It would be great if I could also have your name and date of birth so that I can translate it for you. I will try my best to help you as other have helped me before. I do hope to get some kind comments and advice from readers as well.

I will also be writing more stories about my experience and do hope you enjoy reading it.

Perhaps understanding our dream can help us in making better choices and decision in our lives.

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2009-01-29T05:03:00.000-08:00

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